About Melody W. Miller

A retired counselor, Melody was thrust into disturbing end of life issues by an emergency Guardianship and Conservatorship of her father. She realized many of her family’s difficulties could have been avoided with more extensive pre-planning on the part of her parents. Subsequently, it became Melody's passion to help people organize their affairs so that their families could honor them. The HERITAGE OF HOPE Video Series, the HOH Workbook, and the HOH Website (www.FinishLifeWell.org) all work together to inspire and equip adults of all ages to identify the crucial decisions and complete the essential tasks . . . TO FINISH this LIFE WELL.

PARENTS . . . ACCEPT DEATH AS PART OF YOUR FUTURE

As a teenager, I came across an odd “record.” It was the size of a 45, but it was colored, flexible plastic instead of the customary hard, black disc. Curious, I asked Mom about it. She smiled mysteriously and said, “Play it.” What I heard was my dad’s voice . . . not the one [...]

PARENTS . . . ACCEPT DEATH AS PART OF YOUR FUTURE2025-08-27T18:45:48+00:00

WHO DECIDES WHEN WE TAKE OUR LAST BREATH?

WHO DECIDES--THE MEDICAL COMMUNITY? The mission of the medical community is to save lives. For them, death is a defeat against which they work tirelessly. How can we not applaud them for the diseases they have defeated, the accident victims they have saved, and the health care most Americans enjoy?  When we are sick, we [...]

WHO DECIDES WHEN WE TAKE OUR LAST BREATH?2022-09-27T22:49:32+00:00

4 WAYS TO START WRITING YOUR STORY

1. CHOOSE YOUR AUDIENCE AND THUS YOUR VOICE: My brother, Brian Wilson, tells riveting adventure stories. Family gatherings often bring forth still another yarn, and I gleefully request that he write it down. I am collecting a sizable file! What fun it will be to edit his tall tales one day. His voice is the [...]

4 WAYS TO START WRITING YOUR STORY2025-08-29T01:19:38+00:00

A DAY WITHOUT DEATH

A day without death was the wish of Clavius Aquila Valerius Niger, the fictitious Tribune whose encounters with Jesus of Nazareth are chronicled in the movie, Risen. Although he wielded much authority, Clavius’ job was basically that of an executioner. He oversaw the crucifixions in Jerusalem and quelled uprisings with the superior force of [...]

A DAY WITHOUT DEATH2025-09-04T18:03:58+00:00

JESUS KNEW

JESUS KNEW he was going to die as revealed by Luke 9:51-53. When the days drew near for him to be taken up, he set his face to go to Jerusalem. And he sent messengers ahead of him, who went and entered a village of the Samaritans, to make preparations for him. But the people [...]

JESUS KNEW2025-08-28T00:29:07+00:00

30 YEARS OF CHRISTMAS MOVIES–WHAT A GIFT!

My technically savvy father left us the precious gift of time travel—a DVD of Christmas movies covering almost 30 years! For two hours we laugh and cry our way forward from the late 1950’s in California to the mid 1980’s in Oregon. It is a joy to watch my brothers and me grow up around [...]

30 YEARS OF CHRISTMAS MOVIES–WHAT A GIFT!2025-08-29T01:23:07+00:00

6 QUESTIONS FOR A GOOD OLD AGE

Question #1: How do you speak of your death? Jesus did not experience the aging process, but he faced death. From his prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane and several discussions with his disciples, it is apparent that he knew the hour and details of his coming crucifixion. Surprisingly, Jesus does not speak of death [...]

6 QUESTIONS FOR A GOOD OLD AGE2025-08-02T20:40:32+00:00

AFFORDABLE, AVAILABLE, EFFECTIVE STRESS RELIEF

What form of stress relief . . . . . . . . . . . . is ECONOMICALLY advantageous?                                        No gym membership is needed. It requires no special equipment or expensive clothing. It can be done [...]

AFFORDABLE, AVAILABLE, EFFECTIVE STRESS RELIEF2021-06-30T22:07:48+00:00

INTENTIONALITY ABOUT THE 2ND HALF

If we receive God’s blessing of long life, we will age. How we age, however, seems to be surprisingly dependent upon us. Please observe the huge disparity between those who are positive about the second half of life and those who are not. This attitudinal difference is crucial to one’s outcome. Will we intentionally treasure [...]

INTENTIONALITY ABOUT THE 2ND HALF2025-08-28T20:58:45+00:00

ONE SOLUTION TO THE EXERCISE RESOLUTION

WE KNOW THAT . . . Exercise speeds up our metabolism. Exercise produces sweat to release harmful toxins. Exercise produces muscle that burn calories more efficiently. Exercise lowers blood pressure and cholesterol over time. Exercise increases energy, strength, balance, and improves agility. Exercise firms and shapes our bodies, improves our appearance. Exercise burns fat so [...]

ONE SOLUTION TO THE EXERCISE RESOLUTION2025-08-28T21:04:13+00:00
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